My sister recently lost one of her best friends to cancer and I just wrote her an email. What do you say? We just lost our Grandmother this winter but she had lived a long and fruitful life (90+). When someone who has their whole life in front of them passes that is truly sad. I hope her and her husband can come to terms with their friends passing in some way. But how do you do it. Yes you can honor that person in many different way but the pain is going to linger for a long long time.

When I used to commute 1+ hours to work I would sometimes wonder what would it be like to loose my wife. I could make my self sob with tears. What were the other people stuck in traffic thinking. They were probably just praying that I wasn't some lunatic who was about to bust into some serious road rage.

Anyhow, what do you do? How do you cope?